Ex-Husband Up for Bail Again After Domestic Violence Charges and Breaches (Seeking Advice)

My ex is in jail for strangling me (4 times!), assault, stalking, and breaking restraining orders (10 times!). He even broke bail before! Now he's up for bail again next week and I'm terrified. He's spreading lies that I faked evidence. Will the judge see through it and keep him locked up?

Understand your anxiety completely. This is a very serious situation, and it's natural to be worried. While I can't predict the court's decision, I can provide some information that might help ease your concerns:

Factors Affecting Bail Decisions:

  • Severity of Charges: The new charges, especially the additional strangulation and stalking charges, along with the breaches, indicate a pattern of concerning behavior. This could weigh heavily against granting bail.
  • Breach of Previous Bail Conditions: Breaching bail conditions is a serious offense and shows disregard for the court's orders. This will likely work against him getting bail again.
  • Strength of Evidence: With strong evidence against him, the court might be less inclined to release him, considering him a flight risk or a threat to your safety.

Your Ex-Husband's Allegations:

  • Fabricating Evidence: The court will consider evidence, not rumors. Since the alleged contact happened via platforms where usernames are unique, this can be verified.
  • Shifting Blame: False accusations are not uncommon in domestic violence cases. The court will likely focus on the evidence and witness testimonies presented.

Recommendations:

  • Contact a Domestic Violence Advocacy Organization: They can provide support, resources, and potentially accompany you to court.
  • Prepare a Victim Impact Statement: This allows you to express the impact these actions have had on your life.
  • Don't Engage with Your Ex: This includes responding to rumors.

Resources:

  • National Sexual Assault, Domestic and Family Violence Counselling Service: 1800 RESPECT (1800 737 732)
  • NSW Domestic Violence Line: 1800 656 467 (This is a national service, the number may vary by state)

Remember: Your safety is paramount. There are resources available to help you through this.

Disclaimer: This information is general in nature and shouldn't be considered legal advice. It's always best to consult with a lawyer experienced in domestic violence cases for specific guidance on your situation.